I hear you but it was different. She clearly liked me from the beginning. She actually took work off to spend time with me. She initiated the convos and would literally chase me after classes. Its just the things she told me as we got to know each other more that had me concern. She seems sweet but also hurt so I put her in the FZ if you really look at it. The throwing up 3x, nightmares, etc just made things worst the more she spoke. I dont drink so ill skip on the beer. I also see if I can stop watching porn as that might be a problem too.
instead of asking us for advice, you should be laying in bed talking to your John Cusak poster. He'll probably come to life, sit on your bed and set you on your way with eye-opening advice
You can't save all the baby turtles, man. You sound like you mean really well but could probably benefit from thinking and acting more selfishly. If I were you I would print out everything Cman said in this thread and carry it around until I had it memorized and could recite it verbatim.
