Beating a woman because you can is a cowardly move. In that instance I don't think that's ok. Two adults getting into an argument/conflict in which either party could've played their part in diffusing the situation. But instead it escalates and she hits him, and the guy hits her back. That is ok in my book. As for the bolded there is no place on earth (that I know of) that people think that shooting someone over a stepped on sneaker is okay. Pretty poor example on your part. Yes where I'm from spitting is a form of disrespect. You do not do that period. As for the underlined I've given you examples of what is not ok. Let me repeat it since you keep missing it. Beating on a woman because you can is NOT ok. Hitting a bitch for bringing harm to you is OK. This is not even about gender it's a people thing. Don't put your hands on anyone period. If you hit someone then there are consequences for that action. I was taught not to raise my hands on a woman as well. Except if she brings harm my way. There is nothing no one can say that is going to change my mind about the use of spit. So let it go.
Yes, being spit on is intense provocation even if it's your wife. But if you're in the NFL and you aren't the punter your entire body could just about be considered a lethal weapon in a court of law. When that's the case you're supposed to follow a different set of rules than an average guy walking down the street. His actions were reprehensible, and if she hates him enough to spit on him and he hates her enough to pound her unconscious because of it the answer is get out of that relationship. Or be the bigger man and take the spitting and talk or even scream out the problem if that's what you've gotta do. No excuse for what he did and the league punishment is a joke which is even worse because it says that behavior is fine.
You really are a cousin fucking hillbilly piece of trash aren't you? Rhetorical question. Next time you open your mouth, insert gun.
You don't know shit what your talking about go and look about a month or so how he dog my parents who both are bed ridded. Next time you open your mouth take that cock out of it.
Why is my example poor? It is something that has happened multiple times. Because you say it is a poor example? Sorry but coming from someone who would beat a woman over getting spit on I don't respect your opinion. You didn't have to underline it, I was quite clear already that you think hitting a woman is OK, for you to try and qualify it with saying if she spit on you or hit you is not needed. Bottom line is you are a pussy because anyone that hits a woman is a pussy. Don't try to cover up your actual tendencies by claiming it is how things are done in your hood, which by the way you have failed to let me know where that is. Hitting a woman because your feelings got hurt is a piss poor excuse and getting spit on only hurts your feelings so stop trying to make it more than it is. It hurts your feelings because you are too insecure and think that others will think less of you because you got spit on.
Accidentally stepping on someone's sneaker and the guy that got his shoe stepped on kills the guy. Is different than purposely hawking and spitting on someone. That's why your example was poor. You don't know me or know anything about me outside of what I choose to tell you about me. So please cut out the "pussy" talk. I didn't approach this conversation that way so please stop. So like I said in your mind spitting is not a good reason to hit someone. And that's okay.
I think what Waterboy is trying to get at is that spitting is not a good reason to hit someone in society. I challenge you to tell your Mom or a female boss about your strongly held beliefs regarding hitting women.
My mom told me to not put my hands on a woman unless provoked. I was told to exhaust all other options before it gets to that point as well. And yes spitting IS a valid reason to hit someone whether man or woman. You do not do that period. That is simply vile and dirty. And anyone who does that to me is getting fucked up. So if a woman puts herself in a mans place and feels the need to spit on me then she's getting hit. Like I said where I'm from spitting is highly disrespectful.
So a small town, which my old apartment complex probably had a higher population than, teaches its kids that it is OK to hit women. I am just glad it is such a small town teaching this kind of misogyny
Was it that hard to understand, I am glad that they only teach your misogynistic way of thinking in such a small town. The apartment complex I grew up in, where we don't teach that way of thinking, probably had a higher population than your town.
The only time you should put your hands on a woman is to take her clothes off. Undressing a women in Civilization, USA: Undressing a woman in Irvington, NJ Irvington experienced the crack epidemic of the 1980s and has struggled with its aftermath. The township's violent crime rate has been six times higher than New Jersey overall and the murder rate eight times higher than statewide statistics. As of 2007, the New Jersey State Police reported that Irvington had a violent crime rate of 22.4 incidents per 1,000 population, the highest of all 15 major urban areas in the state.[27]
When conversations get like this. There is nothing left to say. Because if THAT is what you got out of my post. Then the education system where you went to school failed you. So either you're doing this on purpose (most likely) because your mind is made up. Or your reading comprehension is poor. When did I say they "teach people to beat up women where i'm from"? I said spitting on someone is a form of disrespect and that form of disrespect usually leads to fist a cuffs. So if anyone man or woman spits on anyone you can get your ass beat and depending on who you spit on you could get killed. And if a man or woman spits on me they are liable to get their ass kicked. So now that the conversation is at this point. There's nothing left to say and no one is going to change my mind that spitting on me does not warrant getting your head pounded.
So go tell your mom your views on this situation. Show her the video and explain your position. I hope she spits on you.